If you feel safe doing so, a "Grey Rock" approach is often best. Be as boring as a grey rock. Do not engage in small talk. If they make an inappropriate comment, use a firm, neutral script:
Perverted behavior often constitutes harassment, stalking, or disorderly conduct. Call the police non-emergency line to file a report.
Look up local ordinances regarding stalking, harassment, or voyeurism to see if the behavior violates specific statutes. my neighbor is way too perverted guide upd
Section 5: Self-Protection Measures – security cameras, blinds, alarms, self-defense.
Let's outline:
Exposing themselves or engaging in public sexual acts visible from your property.
Use blackout curtains or privacy blinds to prevent voyeurism. If you feel safe doing so, a "Grey
Every time something happens, note the following in a spreadsheet or notebook:
Perverts often feed on reactions. Once you have made it clear their behavior is unacceptable (or contacted police), stop engaging with them entirely. If they make an inappropriate comment, use a
When you see them, become a gray rock. No facial expression. No eye contact. No response. Predators feed on your fear or anger. If you give them nothing, they often get bored and move on.